I have two friends, Jayme and Victory . . . and every time I do anything, I have to choose between the two. I can never be with both, it always has to be one or the other. It's not an easy choice because both are such great people. Different in their own ways, they each offer something unique and I always hate having to choose between the two.
Jayme is a really nice guy. He's on the shorter side but he makes up for it with his determination and dedication. He's a great hockey player, working his way up from the minors and now plays on the top line of the San Jose Sharks. He's also into skateboarding, winning a few tournaments and even beating Danny Way. He's an experienced farmer with years under his belt at growing various crops and raising livestock. In his spare time, he enjoys racing his red Mazda 8 and a few other cars. He vacations in a villa next to a lake and invites all his friends out for barbeques on the patio. He's also an experienced explorer, mage, and knight - surviving years in some of Tamriel's harshest areas.
Victory is a girl you don't mess with. She's tough but she's also always willing to help someone out. She is a sharpshooter for the Rainbow Organization, specializing in small team infiltrations and tactical raids. She's also an accomplished guitarist, getting into the rock and roll hall of fame with her band, Boom Boom Riot. She flies to Japan and snowboards in her spare time as well as being a mercenary for hire. Her vacation spot is at a cabin in the mountains where she entertains her guests. She also has a lot of knowledge about the Washington D.C. area, surviving in the capital wastes after nuclear war broke out.
I'm sure by now, you realize that Jayme and Victory aren't real people, they are my alternate personas in a wide variety of video games. I still have the same dilemma as I stated above though, choosing between the two. In most games, you don't get a choice of gender, and I grew up playing as the male protagonist. I had heard about Lara Croft when I was younger but it wasn't until Primal on the PS2 that I actually got my first chance to play as a female character. Because I'm so used to playing as a male character, when I get the chance to choose gender, I often find myself leaning towards creating a male character rather than a female character (in case you haven't read my bio I am a female gamer).
In almost all of the games I listed in the bios of Jayme and Victory, I had the choice of choosing genders. In Skate 2 I chose to have a male character but in Fallout 3 I went with the female character. You'd think that I would always take the opportunity to play as a female character because I don't get the chance very often. And yes, gender does matter when you're playing a game. How would you like to play as a female for 90% of your games. Trust me, it gets awkward when you're male character kisses his love interest or trying to explain to your friends that you don't know which wife to choose in game. And I can't help but break into fits of laughter when I'm writing my blogs for Harvesting Hyde, as I try and explain my male character's various love interests.
It's more than just awkward moments though, the gender bender problem I've had with video games goes back to when I started playing games around age ten. I have literally grown up role-playing as male characters to the point where I almost prefer them to the dumb-downed female characters you find nowadays. It's kind of odd when I relate myself better to Nathan Drake (who is a really cool character) than I do with someone like Nariko. In multiplayer games, I find myself choosing male characters like in Skate 2. I do have female characters in games like Rainbow Six Vegas 2 and in Rock Band, but I discovered a very interesting trend that I didn't even know was there - both female characters wear masks. Even my female character in Fallout 3 (which is a single player game) wears a mask, though that is more out of necessity.
And if I generally choose male characters for multiplayer games, why did I go with a male character in Elder Scrolls IV: Oblivion. I could have gone with a female character but a female character just didn't seem to fit into my image of knights and mages. There are a lot of female characters in fighting games, but they are always so over the top, if you know what I mean. Realistic female characters are hard to come by, granted male characters like Kratos don't come around very often, but I could see Nathan Drake being a real person. But what of Lara Croft or someone like Ivy from SoulCalibur? Then there's PlayStation Home, the only place where Jayme and Victory exist together. Why? Because when I'm using a female character in Home, the harassment is non-stop, so much so that Victory is confined to the walls of her apartment while Jayme is free to roam the world of Home.If you're a male gamer, you might take for granted how good you have it. I love to get into my games and really get into the story, so much so that I almost feel like I'm the characters themselves. But it's hard at times, when the character you are trying to connect to is a womanizing hunk of adrenaline (Ezio from Assassin's Creed 2) or a weak woman who doesn't know how to handle a gun (Faith from Mirror's Edge). In all honesty, I can't really name any female protagonist that wasn't geared towards the male audience or completely watered down. While I understand that the male audience is a lot larger than the female audience for video games, still the misrepresentation of video game protagonists is amazing. Actually, according to the ESA, 40% of gamers are women and that women over 18 (34%) represent a larger proportion of the gaming community than males under the age of 17 (18%).For now, it looks like I will just have to deal with always playing a male character or a female character that I don't like, at least until a true representation of the female population is presented as a protagonist. While, I still have the dilemma of choosing between Jayme and Victory every time I start up a new game, at least I have the choice now unlike in the years worth of games that I grew up on. So if you're a male gamer, be thankful that you don't have to tell your friends that you're having a hard time picking your new husband or having to sit through a make-out session with a guy.